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        <p>I haven&#39;t blogged in forever because I&#39;ve had a ridiculously hectic school schedule this past semester, but luckily, summer school just started and it&#39;s time to just hang out. I graduated on Saturday, May 10 even though I have 2 more classes left in my degree, but should be done by July 3rd. I&#39;m uber-excited. I feel like I&#39;ve been in school way too long. Some weeks I&#39;d feel like van wilder<br />I was planning on writing about Mary Kay Ash, but I opted just to share my good news. </p>    <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>B-I-N-G-O</title>   
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        <p>Okay, so&#160;I know I should be studying for my class in regional economics or at least be doing the assignment for my accounting class, but I just don&#39;t feel like it. So, I&#39;ve decided to go back to thinking about growing up in the borderland. </p>
<p>On superbowl sunday, most of my family came over to the house. My dad made carnitas (fried pork). The smallest kids weren&#39;t interested in the game. Actually, none of the family was really interested in the game, but just wanted an excuse to have a party. Anyways, my mom had an old loteria set that she found in the garage. She gave it to the kids to play. She put my 9 year old cousin in charge of&#160;&quot;singing&quot; the cards.</p>
<p>Loteria is kind of like Bingo except that instead of a coresponding letter and number there&#39;s a picture that you put a marker on. My family usually uses beans, but if really small children are playing we&#39;ll use bottle caps or slips of colored paper. </p>
<p>I was thinking about how politically incorrect this game might seem to someone who didn&#39;t grow up playing the game. Some of the pictures are benign like:</p>

    
    
    
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<p>Loteria also has </p>
<p>fruit, </p>

    
    
    
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<p>trees,</p>

    
    
    
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<p>and other random objects</p>

    
    
    
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<p>&#160;</p>
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<p>Once you get past all the boring stuff, you make it to the really juicy part. Every &quot;classic&quot; loteria has to have the following cards:</p>
<p>La sirena - the (topless) mermaid:</p>

    
    
    
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<p>El borracho- the drunkard:</p>

    
    
    
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<p>El Negrito- The little&#160;black man: </p>

    
    
    
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<p>and El Apache</p>

    
    
    
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<p>My friend and I were looking at the cards that night. We couldn&#39;t help but think that if we lived anywhere else in the US this game we wouldn&#39;t have played this at school carnivals. Someone who isn&#39;t familiar with&#160;Mexican culture is likely to be offended. Naked ladies, little black men and half dressed amerindians. hmmmm. If someone presented a game like that to me I&#39;d probably be weirded out too. It&#39;s not just the cards themselves that could be offensive, but the person reading them off usually has a little saying about each one.</p>
<p>For example, a common one you&#39;d hear at a church fair would be &quot; El negrito: el que se comio&#160;el azucar.&quot;&#160;&#160;In&#160;English, it sounds&#160;positively frightening &quot; The little black man: the one who ate the sugar&quot;&#160; </p>
<p>Another strange one, &quot;&#160;El&#160;Apache: Ay&#160;Chihuahua! cuanto&#160;apache con pantalon y huarache.&quot;&#160;Ay Chihuahua is a common exclamation like saying&#160;Oh Dear or Oh My God. &quot;El&#160;Apache: Ay Chihuahua! How many apaches with pants and sandals.&quot;&#160;</p>
<p>Then we move on to the real fun. You can never really escape death in&#160;Mexico.&#160;You&#39;re exposed to it at a&#160;young age. It becomes part of your daily life.&#160;Loteria has at least 4 death related cards. </p>
<p>El Diabilito- The little devil-- Portate&#160;bien cuatito, si no te lleva el coloradito.</p>
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<p>&#160;</p>
<p>(Be good little friend or else you&#39;ll be taken by the little red one)</p>
<p>La mano- The (disembodied) hand-- La mano de un criminal </p>
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<p>(The hand of a criminal)</p>
<p>La Calavera- The Skull (and cross bones usually)-- Al pasar por el panteon, me encontre un calaveron</p>
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<p>(While walking by the cemetery, I found a big skull) </p>
<p>And last but not least</p>
<p>La Muerte- Death-- <span style="font-size: small; font-family: verdana">Aquí viene la señora muerte, la tilica y flaca</span></p>
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<p>(Here comes madame death, the (i&#39;m not sure how to translte tilica) and skinny)</p>
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<p>I loved playing loteria during Kermesses or family functions as a kid. I just recently rediscovered how much fun it was.&#160;It&#39;s almost&#160;church carnival season and maybe I&#39;ll&#160;convince my friend to come with me. Maybe we&#39;ll even win a tres leches cake or a&#160;used piggy bank or some stuffed animals. &#160;</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>QotD: Saving For A Rainy Day</title>   
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        <published>2008-01-09T05:34:47Z</published>
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<p>What are you saving up for?&#160; <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 0.8em">Submitted by <a href="http://etoile.vox.com/" class="enclosure-inline-user" at:enclosure="inline-user" at:user-xid="6p00c2251eddf28fdb" at:screen-name="Star" at:delegate="people-connect" at:user-pic="http://up2.vox.com/6a00c2251eddf28fdb00fa9676c46a0002-75si" >Star</a>.&#160;</span> </p></blockquote><p> I saved up my vacation day at work so&#160; could take an evening class on mondays. :(</p>   <p style="clear:both;">    
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    <entry>
        <title>&quot;The difference between commitment and involvement is...</title>   
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        <published>2008-01-07T04:40:54Z</published>
        <updated>2008-01-07T05:51:57Z</updated>
    
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        <p>like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, but the pig is committed.&quot; Martina Navratilova.</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>I&#39;m a little bit of a commitment-phobe. Okay, maybe more than a little bit. Thats probably the main reason why i haven&#39;t gotten a tattoo yet. </p>
<p>I&#39;ve been with my share of losers, but maybe part of it is my fault. Maybe i pick losers because i don&#39;t want to commit to anyone worthwhile.</p>
<p>New year, new me. So i&#39;m going to make myself more open. I&#39;m going to put myself out there. I&#39;m going to lay some eggs in the meantime, but maybe i&#39;ll meet someone.&#160;</p>
<p>If I don&#39;t, I know I&#39;m perfectly capable of bringing home the bacon and frying&#160;it up in a pan.&#160;</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>QotD: As If I Need To Explain...</title>   
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        <published>2007-12-02T02:10:16Z</published>
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<p>List five reasons (at least) why you are awesome. <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 0.8em">Submitted by <a href="http://goobers18.vox.com/" class="enclosure-inline-user" at:enclosure="inline-user" at:user-xid="6p00cdf3a8c8b2cb8f" at:screen-name="goobers18" at:delegate="people-connect" at:user-pic="http://up2.vox.com/6a00cdf3a8c8b2cb8f00cdf3a8dc6dcb8f-75si" >goobers18</a>.</span> </p></blockquote>
<p> I&#39;m only doing this one because my BFF L suggested that I do this one. </p>
<p>1) I&#39;m one tough cookie</p>
<p>2) I have a slammin&#39; body</p>
<p>3) I&#39;m bilingual</p>
<p>4) I can be nice to you even if I hate you</p>
<p>5) I can text and talk on the phone at the same time</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>morena mia</title>   
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        <published>2007-11-27T22:52:28Z</published>
        <updated>2007-11-29T18:37:15Z</updated>
    
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        <p>I have a strange family. Actually, my mom&#39;s side of the family is really normal, and my dad&#39;s side of the family is just holding on to ideas from the past. I guess my family isn&#39;t that strange. </p>
<p>My dad&#39;s side of the family has always been obsessed with skin color. Lighter skinned people are better/more attractive/smarter/ more desirable/wealthier. </p>
<p>Their colorism is extremely apparent when I go to visit. I am not fair skinned. My coworker just defined my skin color as being latte colored. I&#39;m tan. Soy morena clara. I&#39;m not the darkest skinned Mexican, but I&#39;m most definitely not the lightest. I am, however, one of the darkest people in my family. </p>
<p>My older cousin used to get bathed in peroxide to lighten her skin as a baby. She wasn&#39;t allowed to play outside on hot, summer days. She moved away, got married, and had children. I think she&#39;s one of the most beautiful people I&#39;ve ever met. I&#39;m not saying that in a she&#39;s-beautiful-on-the-inside sort of way. I mean it in the most shallow sense of the word. She&#39;s gorgeous. She was has&#160;smooth caramel colored skin, huge espresso brown eyes, and jet black hair. As a child, she always looked like she was sick from something or other. I&#39;m pretty sure it was from lack of sun. </p>
<p>I, recently, found out that my other cousin&#39;s wife has been applying Sun-in to&#160;their children&#39;s hair. The kids are 4, 2, and 6 months. She doesnt let them play outside and the kids are always sick. I hate seeing these type of patterns repeat.&#160;</p>
<p>At my grandmother&#39;s house, my brother is the preferred to me. He has pale, milky white skin, dirty blonde hair, and eyes the color of honey. In contrast, I am olive complected with very dark brown hair and the darkest color eye possible. </p>
<p>I have a alot of cousins. The oldest of us had her first child 14 years ago. Everyone was shocked to see that he was the same color as I was. My aunt even mentioned that to my parents. My cousin was absolutely happy with her tan, dark-haired, dark-eyed, bouncing baby boy. He&#39;s a very handsome adolescent now and quite the lady killer. He looks more like my brother than my actual brother does. </p>
<p>This was never such a big deal at my house. My mother has always lived in a border city where colorism isn&#39;t as prevalent. My dad has not. His family is even offended when asked if they&#39;re Mexican.&#160;I&#39;m very glad my father didn&#39;t inherit this. </p>
<p>My&#160;parents have always told me that I should be proud of the color of my skin. We&#39;re on this side of the river. </p>
<p>I am happy that if I ever start to doubt where I come from I can just look in the mirror. </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>QotD: Guest vs. Host</title>   
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        <published>2007-11-22T16:38:14Z</published>
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<p>For a full sit-down dinner with several guests, would you rather be the one cooking or do you prefer to just show up and eat? </p></blockquote><p> I&#39;m a control freak; I&#39;d much rather cook. I love entertaining, and I have a great BFF and my mom to help me out. </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>mas vale malo por conocido </title>   
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        <published>2007-11-19T21:57:54Z</published>
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        <p>que bueno por conocer</p>
<p>The best translation for this phrase would be something like &quot;better the devil you know:</p>
<p>As many of my friends know, I&#39;ve been considering getting back together with my ex-boyfriend. He&#39;s mildly unstable, has a mild mental illness, and is showing some warning signs of alcoholism. </p>
<p>I wouldn&#39;t go so far as to say I love him, but I do care about him. He&#39;s thoughtful, sweet, but more importantly I know what to expect.&#160;I&#39;m a little weary of starting from scratch. My track record&#160;isn&#39;t spectacular.&#160;</p>
<p>I am a magnet for guys that are bad for&#160;me. Or maybe guys that are bad for me are for me. I&#39;m not sure who attracts what, but I don&#39;t want to jump into the unknown because by the time I figure out he has a second family/ has a drug problem/ is an illegal immigrant/ worships the devil/ is the a wanted felon, I&#39;m too emotionally invested to let go. </p>
<p>With the ex, I&#39;m aware of most of his problems. He frequently tells me that he loves me and misses me. He makes me feel appreciated. There&#39;s no fireworks or birds singing when we kiss, but I&#39;m also not in fear for my life. </p>
<p>We worked through some problems in the past and if he goes back to his lying, cheating, cold, dead-beating, two-timing, double dealing, mean, mistreating ways, I&#39;m gone and this would be the last time we break up. </p>
<p>I said that the last time we broke up, but this time I mean it. </p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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        <title>QotD: Unforgettable Crush</title>   
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        <published>2007-11-03T23:29:19Z</published>
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<p>What&#39;s the most memorable crush you have had?&#160; <br /><span style="FONT-SIZE: 0.8em">Submitted by <a href="http://spectacular.vox.com/" class="enclosure-inline-user" at:enclosure="inline-user" at:user-xid="6p00d414260618685e" at:screen-name="spectacular" at:delegate="people-connect" at:user-pic="http://up0.vox.com/6a00d414260618685e00fad68944b60005-75si" >spectacular</a>.&#160;&#160;</span> </p></blockquote>
<p> Jonathan Taylor Thomas AKA JTT AKA Simba AKA Randy</p>
<p>&#160;</p>
<p>I heard he was gay. Le sigh. A girl can dream though</p>   <p style="clear:both;"> 
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<p>Spanish is my&#160;first language and I often find myself speaking like I&#39;m translating. I&#39;ve been thinking about the different ways to say &quot;I love you.&quot; </p>
<p>Amar and Querer are different ways to say&#160;to love&#160;but they&#39;re so much more than that. </p>
<p>Querer can mean &quot;to love&quot;, but the other translation of the word is &quot;to want&quot;. The way that the word is normally used makes that really appropriate. You say &quot; Te quiero&quot; usually earlier in a relationship, when you love-want them. </p>
<p>Amar is &quot;to love&quot; in the slit your wrists (cortate las venas) sort of way. Its the kind of love where it hurts to be with them and it hurts to be away from them. </p>
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<p>Its hard to define this to someone who isn&#39;t at least a little bit latin. Think of the Taco Bell chihuahua saying, &quot;yo quiero taco bell.&quot; He wants Taco Bell, but does he also love taco bell? He probably does. </p>
<p>I think when you&#39;re hispanic its so much easier to say &quot;I love this&quot; and &quot;I love that&quot; because you do. It&#39;s just a different level of love. Its that kind of love where its not just i love, but i want. </p>
<p>It&#39;s also harder for a Spanish speaker to accept I love you from a non-Spanish speaker. You&#39;ll often hear &quot;how do you love me?&quot; It stems from the fact that there&#39;s only one word in English to express all the different levels of love. </p>
<p>and young man, you know who you are: te quiero pero no se si te amo</p>
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